For over 20 years I worked as a couples therapist.

And I kept seeing the same thing. The problem didn't start in the relationship. The pattern was there long before — quietly pulling each person toward dynamics they had learned to expect from love.

That's why I now work with single women. Before the relationship. At the root.

And then it became personal.

After my divorce I started dating again. I had done years of inner work. I understood my patterns. I was confident. I knew my worth.

And my body still got triggered the moment I started liking someone.

I knew better. And it kept happening anyway.

That's when I understood something that changed everything about how I work.

Confidence doesn't change your pattern. Understanding doesn't change your pattern.

What changes it is working directly at the level where it lives — in the nervous system, at the moment of activation.

What I do now

I work with self-aware single women who are still stuck in the same attraction pattern — not because they lack confidence, but because the pattern lives deeper than confidence.

I work precisely. Privately. At that specific level.